This is a rambling post. Lots of thoughts are going through my head.
As I sit here feeding my Christmas gift, in the bedroom, waiting for my husband to return from church, I think about the last few days.
My mother has changed. My family has come together for the first time in years. I enjoyed myself.
We haven’t opened presents yet. My son patiently watches television.
I am happy, but wondering what will happen next.
My mother wanted us to discuss the reason for the season, what we would give the Lord, followed by recognizing and being thankful for the blessings in our life My husband led the evening as ‘the man of the house’ and the Christian man that he is. We went around the room sharing our thoughts and feelings.
The part that was the most troubling was that my sister openly said that she was thankful for her now ex-boyfriend’s mother and her education, with no mention of my mother (or the family for that matter).
As mich flak as I get for not making my mother feel ‘motherly’ or that I don’t call or give her enough attention, I think it’s very confusing that her words of not being thankful for anyone in our family ( all ok for me, because I know I haven’t been there), seem cutting. How do you sit next to your mom and not thank you or consider a blessing. Maybe its just me.
What do you think? Is it harsher to make it known that you’re not a fan if someone, or wait until a touching moment and basically act as though they don’t exist?